Tuesday, February 14, 2023

Funeral Songs

We think of that ceremony, the funeral, our funeral, as being some glorious show of love and deep grieving for our loss, hoping that it could be a glorious send-off according to our vision of our lives that will honor what we fought for.  And that's if we know somehow who will be in attendance at our funeral.  Dad had to have been happy to see Marilyn, Bill Conroy, Vince Sullivan, and others at his funeral.  These were his most devoted allies.   

And we know too that funerals afford the bitter, resentful, and miserable an opportunity to air vicious lies about the deceased, which might be one of the reasons why religions have hymns instructing us to be reverent and joyful at life's end.  "Requiem Pie Jesu by Gabriel Faure."

#1

#2  I'd like this song, Ashokan Farewell to be played at my funeral.

#3  Another song I'd like played is something in Gaelic. 
 

#4  There's nothing about this lament that reminds you of Amazing Grace.  

This was interesting.
#5

Though this song is a bit heavy for a funeral song, I do like it. It's short. But most people are trying to remember the memorable features of the deceased, not the morose. 

#6

#7  What a beautiful song by Sinead O'Connor, One More Day, 2003.  If you'd like, here are the lyrics.  It has a contemporary rhythm, but O'Connor's voice carries the tune to beautiful reaches.  I did like O'Connor's song "You Made Me the Thief of Your Heart," from the soundtrack of In the Name of the Father, 1993. The song is played on the news of Guiseppe's dead in prison. 

The Funeral, Sinead O'Connor.  This is a good one.  Contemporary enough and sung in Gaelic, a language that an English-speaking audience will find remote which should match their feeling about death.
#8

Here are the lyrics.  It's a beautiful song, but the lyrics and its beauty get lost in translation despite it being sung in Gaelic.  


This translation comes from Google Translate.  Quite beautiful. 

Spouse of my heart, your heart, on Saviour

My heart is a cake, your heart I save together

Oh, it's clear that your heart is full

My grace, dear

Father, Jesus is weak and dying, I am in pain

Father, Jesus is weak and dying, I am in pain
Father, Jesus is weak and dying, I am in pain

Jesus…

Played at a low volume, this song could work.
 #9 Tupelo Honey, Van Morrison.

Two Rivers, Larry Unger.

Thursday, January 26, 2023

Star-gazing in Beverly Hills, 1983-1986, UPS Days

Somebody asked me who was the nicest actor I'd ever met.  That's a tough one because although I'd never met any I had seen several while driving for UPS out in Beverly Hills. For example, I delivered to comedian and actor Steve Martin.  He answered the door in his robe. No exchange of words but his demeanor cracked me up.  

Ms. Natalie Schafer, the actress who played Mrs. Howell on Gilligan's Island, signed for her own package.  Yes, in the days when packages were signed for. 

Delivering to a business on Melrose Avenue west of La Cienega, I parked my truck, grabbed the package, and stepped from the truck to the sidewalk when I look up to see Ali McGraw walk past and give me a nice, sweet smile.  She was gorgeous. 

On Canon, I saw a couple of movie actors.   I rode the elevator--just the two of us--with Victoria Principal. She wore intoxicating perfume.  She was so petite that she seemed fragile.  I was in live with her before we'd ever net.  Lol.

I saw Jim Backus, one of my favorite actors growing up, being wheeled into a doctor's office on Canon.  

Years later when I was seeing Margaret Ayers, 1998-1999, walking down Canon I walked past Dick Martin, 1922-2008, of Rowan and Martin fame.  That was a hoot because I liked his TV personality and Rowan and Martin's Laugh-In, 1968-1973.

Up at Santa Monica and La Cienega in a Fat Burger, I saw actor Victor French of Highway to Heaven fame, 1984-1989, enjoying lunch. 

I saw Richard Crenna, 1926-2003, shopping in the antique stores of Melrose. He was excellent in First Blood, 1982, but I liked him in The Real McCoys, 1957-1963.  But his previous role as a young man in Ms. Arden's English class with his high-pitched voice was odd.

Making a stop on an afternoon pick-up at an antique store on the west side of La Cienega south of Santa Monica, I walked past JoBeth Williams.  She was nice with a kind disposition. 

A daily pick-up on my route was Andy Williams Studios on the east side of La Cienega just north of Waring Avenue at 816 N. La Cienega Blvd..  His brother seemed to be the guy managing his business but on occasion I would see Andy.  He and his brother were twins.  Never verified that, but, boy, did they look identical. 

Sonny Bono used to own and operate an Italian restaurant at the corner of Melrose and La Cienega, actually at Clinton and Melrose, called 

With 2 or 3 packages in my hand, I opened the door of a small boutique, stepped inside, reached for the door's knob behind me to close and someone was pulling on it behind me, Heather Locklear.  She played Officer Stacy Sheridan on T. J. Hooker, 1982-1986.

Though I never saw Don Rickles, I did deliver to his house in Beverly Hills a few times, and the maid always gave me a couple dollar tip.  It was nice and unexpected.

I delivered to Buddy Hackett's place almost daily.  His sisters ran his company out of their garage, and they were always great and friendly, frequently offering me a soda.  I miss their kindness. 

O, and finally I was standing in line at a small market on the south side of Melrose just east of La Cienega behind Jamie Lee Curtis.  She was petite and beautiful and friendly. 

And though I didn't see her, one of the clothing boutique's manager on Melrose west of La Cienega said to me as I walked into her shop with packages, she says, "Do you know who was just here?"   I said no, who, and she says, Jackie Onassis."  She was shocked, I was shocked.

I'll never forget how two of Carly Simon's hits used to play endlessly on the radio back in those years.  "You're So Vain," 1973.  Ugh.  Something about her voice depressed me. 

And in 1984 as a young man making money, I started lusting for one car and that was the Ford Mustang, 4.0.  Gorgeous car.  I went to Vancouver British Columbia twice that year with Kathy Braidhill. Once in October, and the second time for the Thanksgiving weekend.

Monday, December 12, 2022

Oleanders in our backyard and along freeway medians

Funny the things that you remember, or that things, images, scenes conjure.  I'd seen this Van Gogh print before a dozen times, but this time it reminded me of how when I was a kid that Dad warned me to be wary of Oleanders because he thought they could cut and were a bit poisonous, citing an instance where he was cut by them before.  We were standing in the kitchen looking out the kitchen window at the row of oleanders at the back fence as he told me the story that elevated them in my mind.  

Oleanders growing along highway medians had long been a tradition in California.  Where are they today?  We live in a brutal concrete jungle.

Here is a scene on the highway between Bakersfield and Red Bluff, 2019.  They may have been prevalent along coastal towns, like Mission Viejo, Pismo Beach, Santa Barbara, and inland from Santa Cruz.



Sunday, October 23, 2022

Sleep, My Love, 1948


I saw this movie, Sleep, My Love, 1948, years ago and loved it then. love it even more today. Bob Cummings' performance is memorable, "Bachelor in the bleachers."  This is a good review of the film.

A lot of scenes in this movie that later movies borrowed.  The ending where Dr. Rhinehart falls through the glass inside the mansion several floors to his death: that scene reminds me of the first installment of the Jason Bourne trilogy, The Bourne Identity, 2002, referred to as the "stairwell plunge."

Friday, October 14, 2022

Not Quite Moby Dick but Similar Denoument

Shack Out on 101, 1955, with a young Lee Marvin and workhorse, Frank Lovejoy, shares something in common with Terror in a Texas Town, 1958, starring Sterling Hayden as George Hansen.  
 


The script for "Terror" was written by Dalton Trumbo.